Children and Worship

Things to do with children before worship

On the way to church, talk about what will happen when you get there, what it will be like and any expectations that you have.
Sit where your child is able to see what is happening at the front of the church.
Point out the pulpit, altar, lectern, organ, etc. Explain how they are used.
Talk about the people who help during the service and the jobs they do. (pastor, ushers, organist, choir, etc.).
Look for colors and symbols within the church, including banners and pictures. Explain that all of these things remind us of God's love and care.
Count things: crosses, candles, stained glass windows, etc.

Things for you to do with children during worship

Allow your child to sit comfortably.
Do not worry if your child wiggles a bit, adults wiggle too!
Your child may have questions about what is going on during the service, feel free to whisper answers to these questions - it will help both of you to feel more comfortable.
Your child will be watching and mimicking your actions. Try to relax and enjoy yourself.
Be gentle and forgiving towards your child.
Listen with your child for a key word, such as "Amen".
Encourage your child to join in the worship. Hold the hymnal and bulletin together. Shake hands with others at the "Passing of the Peace." Fold your hands for the prayers. Stand and sit at the appropriate times.
Let you child put the offering in the offering plate, and let him/her pass the plate to the next person or usher. Explain that your offering is a gift for the work of the church.
Some children enjoy Sunday Friends, others prefer to remain with the adults. If your child chooses to stay in the service, provide quiet activities or use the activity sheets and pencils provided at the back of church.

Things to do with children after worship

Feel free to go up to the front to get a closer look at the pulpit, organ, and choir area. You can talk about how each was used during the service.
Greet those who led the service at the door. Encourage your child to say hello and shake hands.
Sign the guest book, and have your child do so too, if you would like.
Talk about the service by mentioning things that you particularly enjoyed (the singing, prayers, communion, etc) or something that happened during the service.
Sing a hymn or song together.

Things to do with children during the week